Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Pregnancy Progress & Sex Revealed!

IT'S A BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so excited to have another boy, a brother for Porter, another Aaron-look-alike, another future priesthood holder and future missionary, another drama-free kid, another bundle of joy and blessing from heaven! (Just barely found out last week at 16 weeks.) So the great news is I have everything I need (except for a bassinet, would like to acquire a video monitor, and of course as always DIAPERS). The sad part is we don't have a name! Ever since Aaron and I were dating we've had kids names picked out but mostly girl names, no boy names really. So little guy is nameless for the time being but I would like to think of one asap...makes baby more real and gives an identity.
I am holding a lemon. Yes I am. No this is not a lesson about making lemonade when you get lemons in life. This is a record of the growth of my mid-section and baby. I get weekly emails from BabyCenter.com that describe what's going on with the baby development and mommy insides. At 14 weeks along it said the baby was the size of a lemon (3 1/2 inches and 1 1/2 ounces); I happened to have a lemon in the house I got from my bestie Audrey. Of course I did nothing with it the week I should have, so technically this picture is taken at 15 weeks (same time as the next pictures), but really what's the difference at this point?


No, this is no reference to Twilight. I'm holding an apple because that is the comparison to the baby's size BabyCenter.com made at 15 weeks along (baby about 4 inches long and 2 1/2 ounces). Also happened to be St. Patrick's Day...hence the green "Irish Girl" shirt. Last pregnancy when I took weekly baby-bump pictures I just held up a sheet of paper I wrote the number of weeks on with a sharpie. This one I'm getting more creative. =P This stage of the pregnancy is good because it's past the 1st trimester morning sickness/nausea and fatigue. The downside is it's the "gaining weight getting squishy but not lookin' pregnant" time. Blech. It's all worth it in the end! At least I'm not having to take daily naps being so tired now so my house is back to looking presentable and I'm caught up on laundry and dishes. For almost a month there in the beginning I was taking a nap almost everyday when Porter did. I hate that because felt like such a waste of time but I was just so exhausted.
At 16 weeks baby's estimated size is 4 1/2 inches and 3 1/2 ounces...and compared to the size of an avocado, hence the picture with the green thing (generously donated by my friend Alisa who had one she didn't want so I didn't have to go to the store for one thing). The online article also said in the next few weeks baby will have a growth spurt adding inches to his length and doubling in weight. I'll be popping out a lot more although I've already noticed a significant difference since most of my pants aren't fitting! We're lucky to have been able to find out the sex of the baby so early. You typically have to wait until about 20 weeks, although I've read you can tell as early as 13 weeks. Reason we found out was I had my first appointment with the perinatalogist on the 23rd (went by myself because Aaron had to work, although my OB didn't think they would be doing an ultrasound at this point). They did the ultrasound to check out baby and make sure everything is okay and normal so far. There is no permanent perinatalogist (the last one left the area last summer) so I saw one of the three doctors who rotates coming down from SLC once a week. His name was Dr. Esplin and he was wonderful! Such a great doctor and explained a lot of things in detail which I really appreciated. He was sooooooo much better than the last specialist. He also had a personality and was willing to answer questions, although in his explanations he pretty much answered most of the questions I was going to ask. Next appointment is 3 weeks from the last and after that will be every 1-3 weeks depending on how baby is doing. Then of course I had a normal appointment schedule with my OB which has currently been every 4 weeks and will change to every other week when further along. One thing Dr. Esplin said was we won't go past 37 weeks for sure, but he wants to deliver probably at 35 weeks because the chart that shows the dangerous levels of anemia for baby ends at that point. We're hoping baby will be okay until that far along. If there is severe anemia early on we will be going to SLC for cordocentesis (blood transfusion in utero through the umbilical cord). If baby is far enough along to deliver and it's safer to do that than do a blood transfusion, then we'll have an earlier baby. Praying for the little guy everyday! We are so excited about little baby Bergquist bean!

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Happy Birthday to you and me!

Today is the day. Stacey's birthday!!! Happy 30th! Now I'm no detective or Einstein or anything, but if today is her birthday, and we are identical twins, then today is something for me. What is it, what is it? *pounding fists on forehead* Think Natalie think...oh well. I'll figure it out later. =P Happy Birthday G! (Last year was our golden birthday--turning 29 on the 29th--but this year is another milestone birthday hitting another decade. The big 3-0. Wow. Where did the last 10 years go? Mission, marriage, college, child...oh yeah. It's all coming back to me. It just went so quick. Gotta tell you, enjoying every second of life! =D (Must also give a shout out to two others of my friends and neighbors who share today: my friend Erika Cardon and my friend's husband Craig Matthews. Happy Birthday to you too!) By the way, even though we don't look alike Stacey and I are identical twins and born a minute apart (C-section). Stacey was first so technically she's first in line to age and wrinkle as well as being one step closer to a nursing home than I. *tee hee* We were born in Kalamazoo, Michigan at 9:13pm and 9:14pm. She was 5 lbs 12 oz and I was 6 lbs 4 oz (I was on top). We were two weeks late; they didn't know there were two of us in there. =P Surprise!!!

Monday, March 28, 2011

Stacey & Simon Visit-Day 13 & 14

Monday February 28th Stacey and I went to the Temple! It was finally open after it's biannual two-week closing for cleaning and maintenance. Just so sad that fell on Stacey's visit. We wanted to go more. After naps we took the boys to Creative Minds Discovery Center for an hour. We tried several times during our visit to go but once went too late (didn't realize it closed at 6pm; I was sure it closed at 8pm...who knew what I was thinking) at 6:15pm and another time the boys didn't wake up in time to eat and go, and the third failed attempt Aaron wanted to go on a date. Never mind I had not seen him for days. =P It was somewhere we finally went that Simon loved. For that reason alone I wish we had gone more.


Those little size shopping carts are always a hit.
We tried to get Simon to ride the 4-wheeler but I ended up just giving him a ride.
Later that night Aaron had a softball game. There were two games but they were late (8:30 & 9:30pm) so we just stayed for the first game.
Even though it was late and WAAAY past bedtime we gave the boys a bath and made it red. The next day on Tuesday March 1st was the day I had dreaded for weeks. Time for the Gilday's to go home day. =( She visited with us for almost two whole weeks but no matter how much time we have together it is never enough. I love that kid and miss when she is not here! I LOVED the time we had together and especially with sweet little soon-to-be big brother Simon. Love my Gilday's!

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Stacey & Simon Visit-Day 12

Sunday February 27th started out just right...with pancakes! It's kind of Aaron and Porter's thing to make what Porter calls "cakies". Porter helps him crack the eggs and pour the milk and everything. He knows when the batter starts to make bubbles on the griddle it's time to flip! His favorite part is of course "dip-dip"...aka: syrup.
Simon was kind enough to take the liberty to rearrange my water storage. Thanks helpful Simon! What would I do without you cute nephew son?

Peek-a-boo through Daddy/Uncle Aaron's legs!
It was a pretty chilly day so we bundled up to spend the evening on Temple grounds. First we went to the Tabernacle (built by the pioneers) and I sat in the car with the boys watching a movie while Stacey went in for a tour before they closed at 5pm. Of all the times she has been out here to visit me that has always been on our list of things to do and it never got done until this trip. She took pictures inside and out and really enjoyed learning the history behind the building and the area. After that we took the boys to wander around the Temple. As little boys do, they just wanted to run around. Porter fell down and face planted it on the concrete sidewalk getting a bloody nose. Good thing we were on our way to the car.




Sorry this picture is blurry. We didn't go inside the Visitors Center (would not have worked with the two busy tots who wanted to just run around).
I LOOOVE to see the Temple!!!

Saturday, March 26, 2011

Stacey & Simon Visit-Day 11

Saturday February 26th was a rainy day. We spent the morning/afternoon with my friend Aimee of Aimee Lee Photography (http://www.aimeeleephotography.com) taking maternity pictures of Stacey. It was so fun!!! You can check those out on Facebook. They are AMAZING!!! My precious baby niece Eliza makes her mama look good! The boys were tuckered after a morning of play at friends house. They fell asleep and transferred to their beds nicely.

When we got home before Stacey put Simon to bed she changed his diaper. Right after he curled up and just wanted to sleep where he was...cutie pie!
That night we hosted Nana/Lenore/Aaron's mom's birthday party! We ate kabobs, potato salad, rolls, and chocolate cake. It was a great family gathering with half the family there! (Missed the two Vegas families and the Army family in TN including our deployed soldier.)
Grand kids of course helped Nana blow out her candles.
The boys had a blue bath that night (matched all the rain we got that day) with whale toys!

Porter ended the night helping Daddy fix and build stuff in the garage. He loves using real tools!

Friday, March 25, 2011

Stacey & Simon Visit-Day 10

Friday February 25th...showcasing the St. George mural. Have passed by this for years and have always wanted to get a picture of it...well it finally happened.
Porter has one daddy shoe on and one of his own. Cute kid!
We had lunch at one of my favorite restaurants--Benja's Thia--with my great friend Bonny. Buy one get one is a great deal and their yellow curry is to die for.
I always make a special dinner when Stacey comes; this night we made Cafe Rio sweet pork. It's a bit more work than a normal dinner (lots of chopping involved and all day pork in crock pot), and costs a tiny bit more to get everything thus I don't make it often, but it's so worth it. It's really quite tasty.
Stacey and I ate our dessert (a Snickers candy bar) using forks. Yup--in honor of a Seinfeld episode. This is what sisters are for--to do fun pointless little things for pure entertainment.
The boys both got "specials" from Aaron--in this case it was Life Saver gummies.
Orange bath night!
Simon's bath do'...I love it.
Sharing a snack before bed time.
The boys watched a movie before bed. I love the look Simon gave me as I took a picture; so bothered and "What do you think you're doing" feel to it. Hilarious.
I had the privilege to do bed time routine with Simon: sing a Primary song, read a book, and read a scripture. He is such a cute kid and so easy to put to bed. I love my nephew so much!

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Stacey & Simon Visit-Day 9

Thursday February 24th was such a fun day for the boys! We went to the Wildlife Museum and the rec center to swim. My friend Amberly joined us at the museum with two of her kids. We had so much fun! Misi is 4 and Porter LOVED hanging out with him. He followed him the entire time, did everything he did, and said anything Misi did. It was so cute and really made me think about how important good friends are...at ANY age.
Cousin Simon wasn't too interested in posing for pictures and just wanted to roam around. Cutie nephew! Had coupon for free admission for two, Simon was free, and only had to pay for Porter. I love free entertainment!


*ROAR!*

My Simon and festive zebra-wearing-shirt Stacey.Porter was fascinated by the footprints on the path. Pretty sure Misi showed him those, otherwise I don't think Porter would've noticed them.

After the museum we all went to Wingers for lunch and that was so yummy and fun! So glad Amberly joined us and got to meet my Stacey!
Stacey caught a moment on camera of Porter and I on our phones at the same time and also synchronised texting. Cute little boy!

After nap time we took the boys to the Rec Center to swim (the water was a beautiful 80 degrees!), and miraculously Aaron got off work early that day and was able to join us. It was a fun, fabulous family evening.
My special, cute Simon-son loved the water swings. So proud of Stacey not being afraid to get in a swimsuit and get in to have fun. That can be intimidating when you're pregnant.



Snuggly Simon loves to cuddle after bath time and swimming, but this time fell asleep! He looked so comfortable.
Porter sandwich!
Simon had some crazy hair that dried like that as he slept.
That night the boys had a yellow duckie bath. What adorable kids! Gosh I love them. We had an incredibly fun day!